4.01 On Hiatus

I have so enjoyed maintaining this blog.

For some, this would represent their fantasy.

For me, it's been REAL.  I married into a Dominant Wife-submissive husband,  Female Led Relationship, with Domestic Discipline... 

But, due to physical constraints...
Mostly, what seems to be  (not 100% diagnosed yet)a duodenal ulcer, which is painful to some greater or lesser degree, nearly every moment of my waking hours...
We have chosen to put the 'BDSM' aspect of our relationship into a box, so to speak,  and live a vanilla husband-wife lifestyle,  until I am healthy enough to enjoy it.  

Our finances are in ... BAD .. shape, which has meant, I've taken up extra work to fill in my hours off from my primary job.

Management at my primary job has given me notification ... after  2 1/4 years... to lay off the adult sites that I've been ...um.. doing research on, via the company's broadband, at work.  

So,  until further notice, this blog is on hiatus.

2.14 Valentine's Day video

A video we did, one year ago today

1.22 Rule number 11 in my FLR-DD

"He has been told to NOT gossip or complain about you when you are not present to defend yourself.  I hope you are enjoying watching his punishment for doing so."

1.21 video Rule no. 12 in my FLR DD

"You know you are suppose to keep your ass clean, between your cheeks.  And what did I find? FILTH!  Here's a reminder..."

1.20 Rule no. Nine in my FLR-DD

"You are supposed to provide orgasms orally, daily.  You went to bed last night without even offering.  This morning, I'm going to smack your bottom to a bright red, then you're going to make up for what you missed.

1.19 Rule no. 7 in my FLR-DD

"You embarrassed me at the supermarket.  Let's see how you like it."

1.18 Rule no. Five in my FLR-DD

"You KNOW that you are supposed to come into the bedroom, NAKED, and ask my permission before getting into bed with me.  
Yet, this time you wore pajamas, and got in without asking.  Do you think you'll make that mistake again?"
"No..sob...sob..No, Mistress, no...ohhch ochh..."

12.25 video Santa, the movie, trailer

12 18 MY RULE # ... FLR-DD: a peek inside the home

"TOILET SEAT DOWN!..UGH"
"TOILET SEAT DOWN!..UGH"
"TOILET SEAT DOWN!.. UCH.."

12 17 MY RULES # FLR-DD: a peek inside the home

"Toilet seat...ONE"
"Blog ready  TWO."
"Nice pictures..THREE"
"Respect always..FOUR"

10.12 How to stay happily married

how to stay happily married

This method is fool proof, if consensual....

Spank him often, and vary both the implements and his position, and his state of undress
completely Bare , kneeling, using a wooden paddle

 or completely naked, bending partially, with a leather paddle

 over the knee, bare from the waist down, with your hairbrush

 maybe he can keep0 his socks on, to emphasize his bare bottom receiving the cane

 only his underwear lowered, where he can still feel it around his thighs, while otherwise bare over the knee for a hand spanking

 The wooden bath brush works wonders "over the knee"

 just your look and the carpet beater has him very worried

 a clear ruler certainly makes it's effect known

 lastly, before you stop make certain his feet are kicking uncontrollably 

 it shows his approval of your spanking him

bottoms up

10.08 letter to mom, my butt

10.07 letter to mom, my taint

9.30 Put the toilet seat down

Oh..toilet seat down... 31!
Oh..toilet seat down...32!
OHhh..toilet seat down 33!
Ohhh Toilet seat down 34...

9.13 MerryOne

"MerryOne," She said.  "Strip.  Eighty with the paddle."

I moaned.  I knew this was gonna hurt, a lot.

9.12 Merry Three

"MerryThree," She announced. "Strip and lay face down on the couch."  
I did so, and She fetched an assortment of implements, and proceeded to smack and whack my buttocks, as I whine and moaned and sobbed.

9.11 MerryThree in action

"MerryThree," She said. "Strip, and I'll start with the paddle..."

9.10 MerryThree in progress

"MerryThree,"  She said. "You might as well get comfortable on the bed.  Strip and lay down, face down."

I did... and moaned and sobbed as an assortment of paddles and straps landed across my buttocks.

9.09 Merry One

"Yesterday was the 2nd day this week, with no offer of a DO from you.  I'm invoking MerryOne.  Now. Go, get your clothes off, get the long cane, and get back here, quickly."

6.25 vid I wish 'somebody' would actually watch some or all of this one